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June 27, 2004

the Smell of South Mountain

Yesterday I went to South Mountain to ride my bike. I nearly expired from the heat. It was 106, I think, but I wanted to ride. My mother and sister both insisted that it was too hot, which only made me more determined.

It was 3:30 in the afternoon and I thought that it should be cooling off. Silly. Fifteen minutes on the freeway took me to South Mountain park. I got out of my father�'s Nissan pickup truck to unload my bike and immediately the smell of South Mountain overcame me. Much of my work as an undergraduate aspiring photographer was undertaken at South Mountain. When I first moved to Arizona, I spent a lot of time at South Mountain hiking. I was living with this awful woman who was not entirely awful, but mostly awful. We were captivated by Lynn V. Andrews and her tales of spiritual journeys with her shaman guide, Agnes Whistling Elk. I was 20 years old when I arrived in Arizona. I was young and full of a nai�ve belief in the existence of right and wrong. I became a vegetarian; I read Riane Eisler'�s The Chalice and the Blade; I subscribed to the Utne Reader and I joined the Tempe Green Party.

South Mountain stills smells the same as it did then. It is the smell of the hot desert mixed with the artificial green of the adjoining golf course. It is desert dust, scorching rocks and silent creatures who skitter about as you move in the oven-like heat. The smell is beautiful. I love the desert. The heat is so consuming and it is wonderfully intoxicating. Once you resign yourself to the fact that you will be hot and sweaty, the penetrating heat is uplifting and purifying in its intensity.

I arrived at South Mountain quite unprepared for mountain biking in the heat. I had plenty of water, but it was unwise of me to believe that I could simply dive into a ride in the most intense heat of the day. About one mile into the ride, I felt like I might vomit. I tried to keep going, thinking that I just needed to get my rhythm. I never hit a good rhythm until I have ridden two miles--�always. It takes two miles before I feel good riding; before I hit the two mile mark, I ask myself, over and over again, "why I am doing such a demanding thing?' On this day, when I hit the one and a half mile mark, I knew I had to turn back. I was concerned that I had perhaps pushed it too far. And I had, although I survived. At this point, the sun pounding on the back of my calves was producing a burning sensation, as if my legs were in contact with a piece of metal that had been sitting in the sun for hours. My face was entirely red and it felt like it would explode from the heat. I kept pedaling, hoping that I would not collapse and embarrass myself. The newspaper headline my mother had offered before I departed was spinning in my head: �'Boston Woman Collapses in the Arizona Desert, Rescue Necessary.�'

�No, no, no. I will not stop; I might puke, but I will not collapse,� I said over and over to myself.

I barely made it back to my father'�s truck. I had ridden a total of three miles, which, under usual circumstances, is pathetic. However, in this case, it was incredibly bold. I managed to load the bike back into the back of the truck, although I was not entirely certain that I would be capable of doing so. I got in the truck and cranked the air conditioning. My left eye was in spasm and blurry; the eyelid was quivering uncontrollably. I began to shiver. I was so hot that I was shivering. My hands felt like they were cramped into the riding position and, as I tried to move them, the muscles resisted. I was a little frightened that I was either having a stroke or a heart attack. I began to drive the truck back to my parent�s house and thought to myself how foolish it was for me to drive in this condition. But I drove and I made it back. My eye stopped its spasm after about ten minutes. I had a pins and needles feeling in my hands as I continued to clench and unclench my fists in an effort to loosen them. I kept one hand on the wheel as I curled and uncurled the fingers of the other.

I made it back without crashing my dad'�s truck. I parked it in the garage, got my bike out of the back and unloaded my gear. I entered the house; my mom was sitting in her recliner and she looked up and inquried, �"You'�re back already?�"

June 23, 2004

to AZ

My orange bike and I are going to AZ today. The only way to escape the horrors of my experiences of late is to run far away (or fly, in this case). Big problem: I have to get on a plane this evening and I can't find my iPod.

How does one lose an iPod you might wonder; well, I had it in my gym bag (I thought) 'cause the gym is mostly where I use it. I opened my gym bag and it's case is there, but not the iPod. I am somewhat concerned. Some asshole broke into my car a few weeks ago (smashed the passenger side window) -- I believe I detailed this in a previous post. Now, I am worried that the iPod was stolen then, too. Although, it was in the trunk and why would someone go to all the trouble to look in my bag, find the iPod and remove it from its case to steal it. That seems dumb. I think I just can't remember what I did with it (menopause, anxiety, stress. . .my memory is fried, toasted, functionally problematic).

Better Stuff:
My nephew's third birthday party is tomorrow, so I am going to AZ to attend. I think I'm going to buy him a mountain bike so I can get him started. The kid must ride with me. My sisiter throws a helluva kid birthday party. The conversation with the moms at these parties is something. It always makes me believe that I do not want to have any kids because I don't think I could stand to have these kinds of conversations day after day. The usually focus on toys, sometimes boy's toys and girl's toys (seriously, did feminism do nothing for women??); diapers and potty training, anecdotes about the kids' behavior (good and bad) and anecdotes about kids who are not at the party and their behavior (usually bad). It's mom gossip. eek. Do yo automatically start to do that when you have a kid?

Important question: do I replace the iPod with another iPod or the iPod mini. . .tough questions.

June 21, 2004

My Partner

Dr. Kaufman

June 18, 2004

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June 9, 2004

Natalie Goldberg

Natalie Goldberg is the shit (I learned this term from my students). I continue to listen to her daily in the car as I drive to work and it brings me such peace. I am listening to the interview section now and it's awesome. I strongly recommend buying this audio.

Listening to Natalie helps ease me into a good day, despite the current circumstances. Listening to her talk about how she pursued her writing work is helping me to feel that leaving my current situation might be a good thing for my own art work. This will give me the opportunity to focus solely on my work without the demands of full-time teaching. This could be a very good thing aside from the reduction of income. I just have to stop buying expensive bikes!

June 8, 2004

Driving with Natalie

I have been listening to Natalie Goldberg read her book, Writing Down the Bones on my commute to and from work. I read the book when I was young and eager. It's still quite good even though I am now older and too cynical.

Natalie Goldberg's reading voice is horrible. It is flat, monotone and dry and yet, this daily routine of listening to her read her book has become something that I look forward to with great eagerness and excitement. I got the audio version from audible--it is a recording that she made about fifteen years after she wrote the book and, after each chapter, she comments on what she wrote at age 36. It's really awesome--first of all, what she wrote in the book, and then her reflections about what she wrote. I recommend it to anyone who feels compelled to make art. Read this book and then listen to Natalie read it. I feel like I am on a first-name basis with her just from listening to her read. I am having sort of a bad time right now and listening to her speak about writing practice is bringing me some peace.

June 3, 2004

rain

Stupid Rain! What's that movie? Judy Davis plays George Sand in Impromptu and there's a great line in it where George Sand is pissed off that it's raining during her stay in the country. Everyone is stuck inside and she's exclaiming, "stupid rain," in a great British accent, dragging out the 'stu' part of stupid. She almost adds a 'y', like styoo - pid rain, but it's not corny, just funny.

That took some time. I had to go to the Internet Movie Database (imdb.com), looked up Woody Allen because I couldn't remember Judy Davis's name, but I knew that she was in several Woody Allen movies (best one, by far, Husbands and Wives -- the hedgehog monologue during sex). Anyway, looked up Woody Allen, clicked on Deconstructing Harry (another great J.D. performance), clicked on Judy Davis to find her filmography and finally recognized Impromptu as the movie reference that I sought.